Friday, March 20, 2009

What Women Want, ( Not Just SEX )


So I'm sure all of us guys have had our share of experiences with the opposite sex, but in this blog I will discuss what Ive found to be the ultimate summery of what women want. First off, everyone knows women are attracted to confidence, this is key! When speaking and interacting with women, you must maintain confidence at the maximum level, Don't listen to your friends who are girls, they'll tell you that cockiness is unattractive to them, but think about it, Why do you think their your friend and nothing more, because you haven't exposed them to that side of your persona. It's OK if you act one way to your friends and another to the women your hitting on, but you must remember that when interacting with women your interested in, cockiness is ideal. But it must be mixed in appropriately and with adequate humor, so that they can believe in the back of their head that your only kidding. Next you must think, how does an ultra confident man act? He jokes and teases the women he's interested in, it's simple, all you have to do is tease them, this sets the stage on an unconscious level that you are not worried about how they perceive you but rather you are just worried about if the women fits your standards. The next thing that is important is your body language you must remember that 50% of conversation is though non verbal body language. Avoid crossing your arms, and avoiding eye contact. In fact when you first see an attractive girl, MAINTAIN eye contact with her for 5-6sec or until SHE breaks it, this shows that you are not afraid of her, and it displays confidence, once she breaks it you smile, like a game, I call it the "Smile Game". After you've done this at least 2 or 3 times, its now safe to approach her. If you can smile at her and get a smile back at least 3 times along with her eye contact then you know that she is interested. Next introduce yourself by your name, just say "Hi my names ..., then discuss an opinion or something to get the conversation going. Next when speaking with her use her name as often as possible, this will build an comfort level with which you will be able to play with the rest of the night. Next make sure you are presentable, you must dress, and smell the part, remember even though women are very much attracted to personality they are still attracted to the physical appearance as well. Now that we've discussed the basics I will finally talk about a few facts to keep in mind. 1) The crash and burn that men are soo fearful off, never really happens, in the most worse case scenario , she'll just smile and walk away, no big deal. 2)Attractive women don't want the typical guy who kisses her ass, and buys her things and compliments her, its way too typical and won't get you anywhere in the beginning. 3)Women are amazingly attracted to men who challenge them, and are unpredictable, and play their own hard to get routine, think about it.
Do you agree? add some of your own experiences!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Ghosts & Paranormal The "6th Sense"

Have you ever seen a ghost, or maybe just something you couldn't explain? Maybe late at night you saw a glimpse of something out of the side of your eye. Or maybe you've seen a spot of light or an "orb" before. Either way, you or someone you know has had an encounter. I happen to be lucky enough to see and feel spirits whenever I may be around them. I think everyone has this "6Th sense" I'm sure you've had a feeling that someone was looking at you, and you turned around a made direct eye contact with that person, that's your 6Th sense, it comes from a time when we needed to be more aware of our surroundings in order to survive. When i think of the most shocking experiences I've had with spirits, two occasions come to mind. I used to live in a condo minim that was "haunted" in every sense of the word. My first experience was the feeling I got of uneasiness when we moved in, this was my first clue in. The second was the weird way my cats would act looking as if they saw something, and following it around with their eyes. My third experience was when I was taking a shower one night, and when I got out of the shower someone had written in the mist on my mirror "help" as clecha as this was it still scared the crap outta me. Then one night I woke to the brightest white light I'd ever seen shining threw my window, and the scariest of all was the night following when I woke to someone or something tucking my covers in, I was too terrified to even move, but none the less I was certain it wasn't human. After all these occurrences I decided to take a lighter feel to the situation, and when the next occurrence happened I didn't let it scare me. I was taking another shower and my shower radio started to swing back and forth on it's own, so I said to myself " theres no one here to call me crazy so I might as well try and talk to it" so that's exactly what I did. I said " you know if I were a ghost i think I'd get bored moving things back and forth for fun" and then in an instant the radio stopped. It was all a chilling experience and it all made seance when I found books from the 1600's in my attact the next year. These experences have all been completely word for word true and I'd like to hear any experiences you may of had with the other side.